It's always the same guy girl thing!! :/

So I got in the English literary society!! YAY ME!! :) I am really happy. The 'Gothic inside' guy didn't make it though. I think it was a little awkward, you know, me getting in; he is really good at English too, maybe better than me and he should have gotten in. Oh well, I hope he gets something else, equally good or maybe better.

Finally I have something to look forward to in college other than the antics of those freakin' assholes in my class. Okay, so maybe this is the point where my readers might notice a difference. My blog readers might be surprised at how much I have been abusing lately. But trust me, I have a valid reason for that. I am sick and tired of people in my grade, they seem soooo irritating and stupid. Writing it all here on my blog makes me feel better whenever I look at them making fun of me or quietly passing a comment about me. It keeps me calm through those situation, helps me not getting into a fight with them. My heart dances a little funky dance whenever I they do something bad to me, 'cos those freaks don't know that a bunch of people in far off countries know them as assholes. The thought never lets me down!! In fact it makes me stronger and more confident through the day, I don't give a damn about what they do or say, I have an online journal and people who care!! (Even though my readers are really small in number!!) 

But, what if I am mistaken about them. What if I just think that they are commenting on me when they don't even care??? Well if it is so, though I know it's not, than I will apologize to them on my blog. For now I am sure it ain't so!

So anyway, there is this guy in my class, Mr.T, who has a girlfriend. I really don't know if he is serious with her or not but he is a big flirt and a pervert and a...okay, that is a different story. So he is a big flirt and he flirts with this really nice girl in my grade. It is so annoying, I mean he eyes her in such a weird way, and no wonder the girl really likes his attention and likes it when he sits partners with her. BUT IT IS STILL SO FREAKIN' SICK! I just keep telling myself that I can't take control of everything now; can I?

I also really really hate it when guys and girls go all physical with each other for no good  reason. I mean why would you want to touch some guy's hand or let that guy touch you or ruffle that guy's hair and stuff like that, if you are 'just friends' with that guy. Gosh, it seems so gross!!! :/ If this is how the friend business works, I sooo don't want to stick around for the relationship business. I have guy friends too, but we never go physical, I always keep my distance. That is how people from a respectable Pakistani society should act. Only if we valued our culture and the boundaries it has set for us. Only if... but who cares anymore???

I guessI have babbled enough for today. Please add me on Facebook. :)

Toodles :)

The 'guy' talk!!!

25 August 2009

Okay so I have been talking about a lot of stuff; food, culture, junior year but hello what's the big whoop?? What about the 'guy' talk!?! Being a teenager is a lot about that isn't it???

So when it comes to guys, I am really choosy!! I just don't like any guy!! I have specifications!! But let me just make it clear that here in Pakistan, girls are not allowed to go out. Our ethical codes don't allow us to do that, we can be friends and everything but we don't go out with guys, as in dating and stuff!!

But that doesn't mean that this Pakistani girl can't like anyone, does it? So let's just jump back to the main thing again! Whenever my cousin and I have a girl talk about guys, whe gets sooo agied 'cos I am sooo chotatosy and don't seem to like anyone!!!!

Well, this goes out to her! Here are the qualities that a guy should possess, if he wants to make my likey list!

1. He should look super hot and manly in shalwar kamiz, the national dress of Pakistan.

(This is a fancy shalwar kamiz, worn in weddings! It is known as Sherwani. Sorry couldn't find a better picture)

2. He should have really superb English accent, and must have good writing skill! Explanation: In Pakistan, English is a second language so here not everybody is good at English. But I expect 'the guy' to be really good at it. I know I am good (no showing-off intended) and he should be too.

3. He should be above average in studies, and must be ambitous.

4. He should not be over expressive, over romantic or melodramatic! I hate guys who just keep expressing their feelings, and say lines from movies 'cos they think it's hot! They should be expressive but in a very cute indirect way!! (now you get why my cousin gets agitated!)

5. He should totally respect girls!! Respect is a major thing, no compromise on that!

6. He should have a really fantastic sense of style! He should look good in everything that he wears! A fantastic taste in clothes is really important!

7. He should not smoke, drink or do drugs at all!

8. He should be into books, music and art! (Okay so art is not important, I just wrote it 'cos it goes with the flow...books, music and art!!!)

9. He should be really good in sports and if that sport is tennis, basketball or football, then I'll be all gaga!!

10. He should be as much of a patriot as I am and should have a good vision about politics and current affairs!

11. He should have a really nice and clean sense of humour; with no knack for obscene humour.

12. He should be no where near Edward!! Edward Cullen suffocates me!! How can someone have absolutely nothing in there life except for their love!! Makes me sick! 'The guy' should have a life of his own; his own interests, likes and dislikes! I WANT SOME ONE REAL (I am really practical)

13. I don't want him to be super handsome or super cute, like someone in movies! But he should be likably cute! Cuteness does count! :P

For now these are the things which make me attracted towards guys! With time they might change or more might be added to the list!

Please do share your specifications, if you are choosy or not!

P.S: My junior year is on the right track now, I have sooo much homework to do and here I am wasting my time blogging! But then again, I believe if something makes you happy, it can never be a time waster!